My heart repeats this to myself...."handle emotions with care to save love and time." I find this true for all circumstances. I wont say I am an expert in this emotional intelligence. But friends you must believe that if we humans remind each other about this EQ we can get through difficult times easily than we imagine. I want to venture out on this subject to express my thoughts and opinions.
Family is the first place to learn good values and emotions. If a human being learns to understand his/her own family then he can express himself rightly towards his society. I say this though am still in the process of learning good EQ. And still I have got a long way to go before I can become an expert. So I wonder how I can teach my little 5 yr old to behave well. If he does a small mistake it sparks anger for his father and it creates a sequence of mess between myself and my hubby.
Sometimes it would be me who loses temper towards my son. My husband would come to his son's rescue. Wow! What a sequence. Every time I take oath to detatch myself from any kind of emotion be it love or anger. And the next day I wake up with more love for my family and my spouse.
So I think I revealed the secret for understanding one's marriage relationship. When I feel angry or depressed I would simply tell myself that I need to understand about my family more than what I know. I would tell myself that the next time the same situation occurs I can handle it better, with confidence and calmness.
Anyone into a married life should design a way that will keep the whole family happy in the long run.
Family is the first place to learn good values and emotions. If a human being learns to understand his/her own family then he can express himself rightly towards his society. I say this though am still in the process of learning good EQ. And still I have got a long way to go before I can become an expert. So I wonder how I can teach my little 5 yr old to behave well. If he does a small mistake it sparks anger for his father and it creates a sequence of mess between myself and my hubby.
Sometimes it would be me who loses temper towards my son. My husband would come to his son's rescue. Wow! What a sequence. Every time I take oath to detatch myself from any kind of emotion be it love or anger. And the next day I wake up with more love for my family and my spouse.
So I think I revealed the secret for understanding one's marriage relationship. When I feel angry or depressed I would simply tell myself that I need to understand about my family more than what I know. I would tell myself that the next time the same situation occurs I can handle it better, with confidence and calmness.
Anyone into a married life should design a way that will keep the whole family happy in the long run.
There can be no relation without a fight or ego clash. But finding a way to keep the relation unaffected is the secret to be happy with the relation. Never break a marriage for the unworthy ego clashes or bad temperaments. They are short lived. But marriage goes a long way.
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